By the time we had finally decided we were going to get married, I realized what it was we had been waiting for all along. We were waiting for it to be about us. It makes sense, after all, that is what a marriage is all about. The bride and the groom, the husband and wife. Often times, weddings seem to focus on everyone else and not what is truly important - the life long commitment that the day represents.
Perhaps Wyet and I didn't take the ordinary route to make it official, but then again, what is so great about being ordinary? Why not make it unique and exceptional? When we had finally came to this realization, that we didn't have to do this whole wedding bit the "normal" way, we were relieved, and wedding planning finally seemed fun {and not dreaded}.
When our wedding day finally approached, it was remarkable. It was emotional and stunning, and I truly have never felt more alive and in love than I did in that moment. Our wedding day wasn't the first day of the rest of our lives. It was a step; a continuation of the loyalty we had promised to each other years ago, and it was perfect.
The Details:
Location: Sandals Royal Caribbean Resort - Montego Bay, Jamaica
Date: Saturday, July 18, 2015
Time: 11:00 a.m. EST
Weather: Overcast & Warm
Flowers: Orchids
Colors: White & Pink
Walked Down the Aisle to: Kenny G's The Wedding Song
Signed Marriage License to: Bob Marley's Could You be Loved
Wedding Song: This Magic Moment
Cake: Caribbean Rum
Drink: Champagne
Overall Mood: Blissful
Here is to the rest of forever! |